In a 3- to 5-page paper:

Evaluate whether the primary offender in the podcast has a mental illness or a personality disorder. Support your evaluation with behavioral evidence. Explain whether the offender’s action could lead to an insanity defense. Why or why not?

Support your rationale with references to the Learning Resources and other academic sources.

Complete and submit your Assignment.

To prepare for this Assignment:

• Review the Learning Resources.
• Select one of the three podcasts to analyze for the Assignment:
  • Death in the Family
  • Eye See You
  • Nowhere to Hide

Death in the Family / Familicide

Scott Moyer is a 38-years old sales representative for a manufacturing company. He lives with his wife Andrea and their two sons, Connor and Tyler. Scott’s performance at work has been decreasing over the past several months. Because of his work stress, he has been drinking more frequently and routinely has several drinks in the evening.

Death in the Family: Episode 1 Program Transcript GUARD: Scott Moyer? SCOTT: Yeah, that’s me. GUARD: You’re free to go. Your lawyer’s waiting for you in a room down the hall that way. SCOTT: Thank god. [FOOTSTEPS] Frank, Man, it’s good to see you. FRANK: Hey, Scott. How you doing? SCOTT: Guy in the cell next to mine snored like a fog horn. I don’t think I slept more than 10 minutes last night. Thanks for bailing me out. FRANK: I didn’t. Andrea decided not to file any charges against you again. SCOTT: (SIGHING) OK, then. Let’s get out of here. FRANK: Hang on a sec. Let’s sit down. There’s some things I want to talk to you about first. [CHAIR SCOOTING] This is the third time you’ve been arrested for fighting with Andrea, and she’s not the one who called the police on you this time. It was your neighbors. SCOTT: Your point being what? FRANK: Look, we’ve known each other a long time. I’m your lawyer and your friend. This kind of trouble can’t go on. The next time it happens you could be looking at court-ordered domestic violence counseling, anger management classes. SCOTT: Not the bleeding heart treatment, (CHUCKLING) anything but that. FRANK: It might not be such a bad idea. The police report says you choked her.

SCOTT: Yeah, well, she tried to take my beer away. © 2016 Laureate Education, Inc. 1 Death in the Family: Episode 1 FRANK: Are you listening to yourself? Do yourself a favor and stop drinking too. SCOTT: (SIGHING) Yeah. Yeah. I love Andrea. I do. But sometimes we’re arguing, and the next thing I know I’m on my fifth beer, and the kids are crying and she’s crying. I swear, stress sometimes, especially at work. I can’t seem to make enough money anymore. My paycheck’s gone faster than I can spit. FRANK: That’s what Andrea said this last fight was about– money. SCOTT: Yeah, sort of. I bought a handgun the other day, and she flipped out– said we couldn’t afford it. Didn’t care that I got it for us, for protection, you know? Then she started talking about how she didn’t want it in the house because she’s anti-gun all of a sudden. Anti-gun? Give me a break. That gun is staying. FRANK: I hope you’ve got a license for it. SCOTT: Of course I do. And I’ve taken gun safety. FRANK: Good. But Andrea told me you got mad over her taking a job to earn some extra money? SCOTT: Actually, it started with me buying the gun. And then she told me about this job she got to help with the bills. I swear, she’s already got a job– at home with our kids. FRANK: Scott– SCOTT: No! When she takes a job, that’s saying I can’t provide for our family. What man wants to hear that? FRANK: Sounds to me like she’s just trying to help. SCOTT: I don’t need her to help. I just need her to do what I say. Are we finished here?

FRANK: Yeah. SCOTT: Then I’m ready to go home. [CHAIR SLIDING ON FLOOR] Don’t worry. I’ve learned my lesson. I don’t plan on getting arrested again

Andrea Moyer is preparing for Scott’s arrival home from jail when her friend Maya comes over for a visit.

Death in the Family: Episode 2 Program Transcript [MUSIC PLAYING] [DOORBELL] FEMALE SPEAKER: Maya, what are you doing here? FEMALE SPEAKER: I wanted to make sure you’re OK. FEMALE SPEAKER: Come in, come in. I don’t have much time, he’ll be here any minute. FEMALE SPEAKER: Who? FEMALE SPEAKER: Scott. His lawyer’s dropping him off from the police station. FEMALE SPEAKER: They let him go? FEMALE SPEAKER: Look, I know what you said but I decided not to press charges. The kids were so upset. They were up all night. FEMALE SPEAKER: Where are they? I sent them over to a neighbor’s for a few hours. So Scott and I can be alone and talk things out. FEMALE SPEAKER: Talk things out? Andrea, your throat’s still red from where he tried to wring your neck. FEMALE SPEAKER: He loves bacon and french toast, that’ll put him in a good mood. Would you like some coffee? I just made a fresh pot. FEMALE SPEAKER: Andrea, Scott’s dangerous. He’s out of control. You told me he scares you. Said he’s not a good father or husband. Listen to me! FEMALE SPEAKER: I am listening. You’re a good friend, Maya, and I owe you so much. I got my teaching job thanks to you. But I’m just trying to survive here and take care of my kids until I can figure out how to get out of this marriage and get away from him without things getting any worse. But right now, Scott’s going to walk through that door and I need to have his french toast ready, do you understand me? FEMALE SPEAKER: Sure, I get it. FEMALE SPEAKER: Oh God, he’s here. You like french toast? I can make you some extra. © 2016 Laureate Education, Inc. 1 Death in the Family: Episode 2 FEMALE SPEAKER: No, I’m good. I better be going. Scott and I aren’t the best buddies, remember? Call me if you need anything. Just promise you will.

FEMALE SPEAKER: Promise what? FEMALE SPEAKER: Hi, Scott. MALE SPEAKER: Maya. FEMALE SPEAKER: I was just going. Andrea, call me later. FEMALE SPEAKER: Will do. Bye. MALE SPEAKER: What did she want you to promise? FEMALE SPEAKER: Nothing. Girl talk. I hope you’re hungry. MALE SPEAKER: I am. Listen, about last night– FEMALE SPEAKER: Breakfast is almost ready. MALE SPEAKER: Smells good. I’m hungry. FEMALE SPEAKER: And there’s coffee. MALE SPEAKER: About last night, I had too much to drink. You know how mad I get when you talk to me about our money or how I’m handling it. FEMALE SPEAKER: Fine. Let’s not talk about it then. Have some breakfast. MALE SPEAKER: How about a welcome home kiss? FEMALE SPEAKER: Sure. MALE SPEAKER: That’s better. FEMALE SPEAKER: Now sit down and eat. MALE SPEAKER: Good, I’m starved. Where is my coffee? That’s better. Man, I’m hungry. FEMALE SPEAKER: I’m not giving up my job, Scott. I want to work and we need it. You need to be OK with that. You understand what I’m saying?

MALE SPEAKER: I thought we weren’t going to talk about money?

Scott discusses his work performance during a meeting with his boss Mr. Sack.

Death in the Family: Episode 3 Program Transcript [MUSIC PLAYING] [DOOR KNOCK] MALE SPEAKER: Mr. Set, you wanted to see me? MALE SPEAKER: Oh, hi Scott. Yes, yes, come in. And shut the door behind you. Have a seat. How’s it going today? MALE SPEAKER: Perfect. Couldn’t be better. I’ve got a solid lead on a new client. MALE SPEAKER: Really? MALE SPEAKER: Could be worth six figures. MALE SPEAKER: Wow. Who is It? MALE SPEAKER: I’d rather keep that quiet for now, until I reel them in a bit more. But it’s looking very good. I know the last few months have been a little slow for me but this one’s going to change that. It’s a really big fish. MALE SPEAKER: Listen, I called you in today because the last several months have been more than slow for you here. Frankly, they’ve been a disaster. We’ve talked about this, but it’s just not turning around. MALE SPEAKER: I know. I know but I’m sure I’m going to get a break here. This deal I was just telling you about, it’s going to be sweet. I promise. MALE SPEAKER: Scott, Scott, I like you. I really do. But this is all just talk. I need to see sales. And I need to see them now. Or I won’t have any choice but to let you go. MALE SPEAKER: But I’ve got a big deal on the line. It’s going to change everything. You’ll see. MALE SPEAKER: Listen, I’m sorry. But that’s just big talk, Scott. And I’m tired of it. Either you start making some sales or we make a fresh start without you. And if I can share some advice, I’d start watching my money if I were you. I see you with a brand new car, flashy new clothes, taking people to dinner. And I think, how the hell is he able to afford all of that when he isn’t making a nickel? And I’d stop drinking, too. © 2016 Laureate Education, Inc. 1 Death in the Family: Episode 3 MALE SPEAKER: I don’t know what you’re talking about. I have stopped. MALE SPEAKER: People in the office smell it on you. MALE SPEAKER: They’re lying. MALE SPEAKER: I smell it on you. MALE SPEAKER: OK, I just– please. I just need time to straighten out some things. I know I’ve promised before, but I mean it this time. I give you my word. No more drinking. And I’m going to start closing the sales. MALE SPEAKER: You have until the end of the month. [MUSIC PLAYING] MALE SPEAKER: One way or the other, that’s it. Make the most of it. Death in the Family: Episode 3 Additional Content Attribution

Scott travels to a bar after work and to forget about his troubles.

Death in the Family: Episode 4 Program Transcript [MUSIC PLAYING] MALE SPEAKER: Hey, bartender, give me another. [SOUND OF GLASS HITTING A SURFACE] [SOUND OF LIQUID POURING] BARTENDER: Here you go. MALE SPEAKER: Thanks. [EXHALES] Hit me again. Hey, do I sound drunk to you? BARTENDER: Why, you’re drunk? MALE SPEAKER: No, but I need to call my wife and I want to make sure I sound OK. BARTENDER: You sounds OK to me, but not for long if you keep drinking like that. MALE SPEAKER: Thanks. (QUIETLY) Who asked you, buddy? Let me drink in peace. Here we go. [PHONE RINGING] FEMALE SPEAKER: Hello? MALE SPEAKER: Hey, how’s it going? FEMALE SPEAKER: Where are you? I thought you’d be home by now. MALE SPEAKER: I’m still at work. I’m coming soon. FEMALE SPEAKER: What’s all that noise? I hear music. MALE SPEAKER: Yeah, it’s one of the secretaries is having a birthday here. They threw a little party in the office. FEMALE SPEAKER: OK, but get here as soon as you can. We have that faculty party at my school tonight and the kids are already with the sitter. MALE SPEAKER: Sure, sure. Don’t get all whiny. I’ll be there. © 2016 Laureate Education, Inc. 1 Death in the Family: Episode 4 FEMALE SPEAKER: And, wait, I almost forgot. We got a late notice in the mail today from the mortgage company. It says we haven’t paid for months. MALE SPEAKER: I’ll take care of it tomorrow. It must be some kind of mistake. FEMALE SPEAKER: You sure? It got me worried. MALE SPEAKER: (SARCASTICALLY) You sure? It got me worried. I said I’ll take care of it. I’ll be home soon. FEMALE SPEAKER: Hurry. I don’t want us to be la– [BEEP] MALE SPEAKER: My god, what a wind bag. Bartender, one for the road.

Scott and Andrea attend a party at a school where Andrea works as a teacher.

Death in the Family: Episode 5 Program Transcript [MYSTERIOUS MUSIC PLAYING] NED TURNER: Andrea, so glad to see you tonight. This must be Scott. Hi, I’m Ned Turner. ANDREA: Mr. Turner is the principal, my boss. SCOTT: Nice to meet you, Ned. NED TURNER: Likewise. I hope you’re all enjoying the party. It’s nice to get the faculty and staff together now and then. SCOTT: It’s great that you do this. I wish they had things like this where I work. It’s so good for morale. You can feel it in the room. NED TURNER: Thank you. I really appreciate you saying that. It’s the least I can do. Everyone here works so hard, especially Andrea. SCOTT: No need to tell me. She’s dedicated, all right. NED TURNER: Her peer evaluations are glowing, and her students love her. She’s one of our stars. ANDREA: You’re embarrassing me. SCOTT: She’s a star with me, too. NED TURNER: Well, she’s confident, compassionate, and empowered, just the kind of role model our young students need. We need more teachers like you, Andrea. ANDREA: Thanks, Ned. I really appreciate that. NED TURNER: OK. Duty calls. I need to keep making the rounds. It was nice

meeting you, Scott. Please enjoy yourselves. SCOTT: Thank you. You stay the hell away from him. You understand me? ANDREA: What are you talking about? SCOTT: Don’t play stupid. It’s plain to see. He’s got the hots for you. © 2016 Laureate Education, Inc. 1 Death in the Family: Episode 5 ANDREA: Ned? That’s ridiculous. Ow. Let go of my wrist, Scott. You’re hurting me. SCOTT: I’ll hurt you a lot more if I catch you cheating. Don’t even think about leaving me. Understand? Understand? ANDREA: Yes, yes. SCOTT: Now smile and have a good time. I’m going to go get some more to eat. Hey, Maya how’s it going? Great party, huh? MAYA: Well, he’s in a good mood tonight. You OK? ANDREA: No. MAYA: What’s happened? ANDREA: I think it’s time for me to do what we talked about, take the kids and leave. MAYA: It’s about time, honey. He’s no good for you. ANDREA: There’s just one thing that worries me. MAYA: What’s that? ANDREA: How he’s going to react when I do it. [DARK MUSIC PLAYING] Death in the Family: Episode 5 Additional Content Attribution FOOTAGE: GettyLicense_451087687 Joe Houghton – www.joehoughtonphoto

Another evening, Scott arrives home late while Andrea is helping her two boys into their beds.

Death in the Family: Episode 6 Program Transcript [MUSIC PLAYING] ANDREA: Sh. Goodnight boys. Sweet dreams. Mama loves you. See you in the morning. [FOOTSTEPS] SCOTT MOYER: You’re still up? Don’t tell me you’re waiting to ask me where I’ve been. ANDREA: I just put the boys to sleep. SCOTT MOYER: Well, aren’t you mommy of the month? ANDREA: You’ve been drinking– again. SCOTT MOYER: Bingo! Give the lucky lady a prize. And now I’m going into the kitchen to drink some more. Any objections? [FOOTSTEPS] [SOUND OF CAN OPENING] Ah. Ice cold. Want one? ANDREA: We need to talk. SCOTT MOYER: I guess this is the part where you talk and I listen. ANDREA: I keep showing you these bills and you keep ignoring them or telling me that there’s been some mistake. But there’s no mistake, they’re all overdue. Where’s the money, Scott? You work. I work. Where’s the money? SCOTT MOYER: What a phony you are. You know exactly where the money is. It’s in that shiny new car you drive to work every day and never ask how we can afford it. It’s in that cushy vacation we took and that you seemed to enjoy pretty damn well. ANDREA: So this is my fault? SCOTT MOYER: You’re damn right it is. [SLAMMING SOUND] © 2016 Laureate Education, Inc. 1 Death in the Family: Episode 6 [SOUND OF CAN OPENING] This all started with you taking that job and you getting yourself some new friends, like that Maya, putting ideas in your head. I know what you two talk about behind my back, how you’re better than me and all. ANDREA: You need to stop right now. I’m talking about the money. SCOTT MOYER: No, you talked, now it’s my turn. You’re quitting that job. ANDREA: What? SCOTT MOYER: That’s right. Not a week from now, not a month or a year, you’re quitting now. Tomorrow I want you right back home where you belong. ANDREA: No, I’m not. SCOTT MOYER: Yes, you are. ANDREA: Ugh. You’re– you’re talking crazy. We are broke and you want me to quit? No! SCOTT MOYER: Shut your mouth! You’re doing it. ANDREA: No! I’m not doing it. But I’ll tell you what I am going to do tomorrow, I’m leaving with the kids. We’re going to stay with my parents. I’m not going to put up with you like this anymore. I already told them we’re leaving. SCOTT MOYER: You what? ANDREA: I need some time by myself. SCOTT MOYER: Oh, I get it now, very clever. This has nothing to do with money. You’ve been seeing somebody on the side, haven’t you? You’ve got yourself another man. I bet it’s that principal. ANDREA: You know, I feel sorry for you. I really do. You need help. SCOTT MOYER: I need another drink. ANDREA: I’m going to bed and I’m locking the door. You can sleep down here tonight. [FOOTSTEPS] SCOTT MOYER: Take my kids way– © 2016 Laureate Education, Inc. 2 Death in the Family: Episode 6 [PHONE RINGS] [SOUND OF CAN OPENING] Like hell you will. [PHONE RINGING] Yeah? MARSHA: Hi, this is Sun Valley Mortgage calling. My name is Marsha. I’m trying to reach a Scott Moyer. SCOTT MOYER: That’s me. MARSHA: Good evening, Mr. Moyer. I want you to know that this conversation is being recorded. I’m calling because we’ve left numerous messages for you regarding your overdue mortgage payment. SCOTT MOYER: Overdue, huh? MARSHA: Yes. I’m calling to see if maybe you might be iinterested in setting up a payment plan with us. SCOTT MOYER: A payment plan, huh? MARSHA: Yes, there sir. SCOTT MOYER: That’s a real good idea, Marsha. Just one problem, I don’t have any money. MARSHA: I’m sorry to hear that, sir. SCOTT MOYER: But you know what I got a lot of? People giving me advice– my wife, my boss, you. You know what you need, Scott boy? A payment plan. I bet if I showed you my empty wallet, you wouldn’t even care. You’d just hook me up to an IV and drain me dry, take every drop of my blood if you could– blood money. MARSHA: Mr. Moyer– SCOTT MOYER: Well, I’m afraid you’re too late, Marsha, because I got fired from my job today and now my wife says she’s going to take my kids and leave me. So I got nothing left for your damn payment plan, no more money– [SOUND OF PHONE HANGING UP] © 2016 Laureate Education, Inc. 3 Death in the Family: Episode 6 –no more blood, no more life. Hello? Hello? Where did you go, Marsha? You hang up on me? I’ll show you. I bet you wouldn’t hang up on me if I showed you this. [SOUND OF ROTATING CYLINDER CHAMBER OF GUN] Nobody’s taking my house away or my kids, not with my gun in your face. Who’s got the power now, huh? All your big talk, telling me I need help. Well, I got news for you, Andrea, you’re the one that’s going to need help because I got six little bullets in here that are going to teach you a lesson once and for all. When I said I wasn’t ever going to get arrested again, I meant it. Locked door or not, here I come. [FOOTSTEPS] [MUSIC PLAYING] Death in the Family: Episode 6 Additional Content Attribution FOOTAGE: GettyLicense_109942033 [Darren Lehane]/[Moment]/Getty Images GettyLicense_163016926 [anzeletti]/[Vetta]/Getty Images GettyLicense_159627464 [Image Source]/[Image Source]/Getty Images GettyLicense_476209589 [Richard Goerg]/[Photographer’s Choice RF]/Getty Images GettyLicense_175176905 [Tetra Images]/[-]/Getty Images © 2016 Laureate Education, Inc. 4

Police are called to the Moyer home.

Death in the Family: Episode 7 Program Transcript [MUSIC PLAYING] MALE SPEAKER: Car 51, respond to 1343 Wilmont Way. Reports of shots fired. MALE SPEAKER: Car 51, we’re on our way. Let’s go, Rick. [SIRENS] FEMALE SPEAKER: Thank god you’re here. I live next door. I heard the shots and called 911. MALE SPEAKER: Thank you, ma’am. Please get back to your house. We’ll handle this now. [DOORBELL] MALE SPEAKER: No answer. The front door is open. I’m going in. MALE SPEAKER: Try the door. MALE SPEAKER: Unlocked. MALE SPEAKER: Then let’s go in. MALE SPEAKER: Hello? Police! Police! MALE SPEAKER: You take the first floor. I’ll go upstairs. MALE SPEAKER: Roger that. MALE SPEAKER: Police! I’m coming up the stairs! Oh my God. Paul, upstairs. My God. Dispatch, this is car 51. We’re at 1343 Wilmont Way responding to that report of shots fired. They’re all shot dead. We’ve got four bodies. A woman, two children, and what looks like the shooter, a man. Dead of what looks like a selfinflicted gunshot to the head. [SIRENS] [MUSIC PLAYING] © 2016 Laureate Education, Inc. 1 Death in the Family: Episode 7 Death in the Family: Episode 7 Additional Content Attribution FOOTAGE: GettyLicense_114430333 [Kevyn Bashore]/[Creatas Video]/Getty Images GettyLicense_109942033 [Darren Lehane]/[Moment]/Getty Images

Reflection 1:

In no more than 3 and no less than 2 full double spaced page(s) of text, APA format respond to the following about the information you have already covered (Ch. 7) about oppression and microaggressions.  Also read “Confronting a Bias” that is attached to this assignment.   (Don’t forget to cite and source!)

1.    How do you see yourself in relation to the information presented in your textbook about racism and prejudice?  (remember that we all have some prejudices and that the purpose here is to help you explore within yourself so you can increase your own self-awareness)

2.    What did you read in the microaggressions chart in Ch. 6 that resonated within you?  This is likely to be among the things you read that you had the strongest reactions to.  Be SPECIFIC in your responses.  Describing generally what you didn’t like or don’t ascribe to is too general.

3.    What are your thoughts and reactions to the reading “Confronting a Bias?”  Use the information about oppression and microaggressions thatyou have read, and analyze the situation described in the reading.

Confronting a Bias:

Personal Example of Communicating an Observed Bias

Initially upon reading the text about racism and prejudice, I was able to identify times

when I was on the receiving end.  A recent encounter at the Michael Kors store came to mind as it resonated within me for some time.

Just for background purposes, when you enter the Michael Kors store you are greeted by the salesperson and they will let you know of any specials they have. On this particular day I entered right behind a daughter, her mother, and grandchild in a stroller, which were white. As soon as they got in the middle store area the sales person greeted them and told them about the sale they were having. I was within a couple feet of them and received no greeting or sales pitch.

Often I believe that in order to be sure it is not just me that I need to observe. In my observation, there was an Asian female that entered the store and she also did not receive a greeting or sales pitch. At this point, I am feeling offended an aggravated and felt that this behavior needed to be pointed out. So I politely explained to the manager that because of my current class at school I am being more observant with regards to interactions and treatment. Furthermore, “I observed the discriminative behaviors of your worker and it should be addressed.”

Initially the manager was contributing the busyness of the store to the worker being

distracted. However I was able to show the manager that as another white female walked in the worker was always readily available but I still had not received a greeting.

At this point, I was thinking of the Pretty Woman scene when she was able to come back and let the sales person know that their prejudgment of her had cost them big on commission and sales. Unfortunately, I was unable to spend big and the commission would not have resulted too much.

I definitely felt like a second class citizen in this situation.

Textbook: Sue, D. W. and D. Sue (2013); Counseling the Culturally Diverse: Theory and Practice. 7th ed., John Wiley and Sons. (available as an e-book on Cengage Unlimited)

Chapter 6: Microaggression in Counseling and Psychotherapy

Kiana is a 34-year old multiracial bisexual woman living in a large metropolitan city. Her father is African American and her mother is biracial: Korean and Italian American. Kiana has medium skin tone and wears her hair very short and natural. She is currently an administrative assistant at a large university where she has worked for three years. Kiana works in this position while pursuing her Master’s degree in Fine Arts. She performs and choreographs modern dance. Kiana has felt marginalized in her place of work and also recently ended a long-term romantic relationship. She struggles with managing her work environment and with re-entering the dating scene. She has also had some trouble getting out of bed in the morning and generally feels melan­choly. She asked a friend to recommend a therapist, hoping it might help her feel more energetic and motivated to meet a new partner. Kiana’s friend referred her to a psychoanalyst she had been seeing for years: Alan, a White male in his late 50s. Kiana had some reservations about therapy; her mother felt it was disgraceful and inappropriate to tell a stranger about personal problems and her father felt it was for “crazy” people. In the first therapy session, Kiana described the difficulties she was having meeting other single people in the city. Alan asked Kiana if she might be contributing to her inability to meet men by having an “unapproach­ able air.” Kiana was surprised by his question and asked him what he meant by “unap­proachable”? He shared his first impression of her, which was that her body language seemed closed and she appeared angry. Kiana paused, as this was not the first time someone had perceived her as an “angry Black woman.” She did not have the energy to explore this with him, and so accepted his observation and tried to change the subject by pointing out that she is attracted to both men and women. Alan was curious about Kiana’s bisexuality and how she understands it. He offered an interpretation of bisexuality as being a phase during which a person is trying to find their sexual identity. He asked her if identity issues had been an ongoing theme in her life and wondered aloud about her ethnicity. Once again, the kind of curiosity Alan was expressing was a familiar experience to Kiana, but she did not want to waste her time in therapy educating Alan about her sexuality or her ethnicity. She agreed with him that identity issues were an ongoing theme in her life and moved the discussion to her workplace. Kiana shared with Alan that in her current role as administrative assistant, she expe­riences persistent feelings of invisibility. She relayed multiple incidents in which she would be sitting at her desk and people would look right past her, act as if she was not there, and generally treat her as unimportant. Further, though she was in this job to support her Master’s degree studies, she felt she was often treated by professors and students as a “second class citizen”: there to serve them. She frequently noted looks of surprise and shock when she revealed that she was a Master’s candidate. For example, a professor from a different department had recently come in to inquire about prereq­uisites for a particular course. Though the professor hadn’t directed her question to her, Kiana spoke up, saying that she had taken the course and the student should be fine even with a limited background in the subject matter. The professor looked somewhat stunned and thanked Kiana tentatively before asking, “Why did you take the course? Is it free for staff?” Kiana shared an office space with another administrative assistant named Michelle, who was a younger White female and newer to the job. When a colleague would come into their office with a policy or inventory question, they always directed it to Michelle. When a delivery person or tech would come in, they would address Michelle, and if Michelle was not at her desk (but Kiana was), they would simply walk out, as if no one were in the office. She shared with Alan that she sometimes wonders: can anybody see me? While exploring this, Alan wondered if Kiana was “making a mountain out of a mole hill.” For example, he asked if Michelle’s desk was positioned closer to the door in the office, implying that she is the “first line” for inquiries. He also asked how Michelle greets people: was she smiling and cheerful? Pleasant and warm? Alan felt it was important for Kiana to consider where these feelings of invisibility may be coming from, and invited her to consider if she felt that she was not worthy of others’ attention and admiration. He then began to ask her how her relationship was with her parents as a child, with particular interest in how she felt about her father. These questions frustrated Kiana, but she was aware that Alan was already experienc­ing her as closed and angry. Actually, she was feeling angry, and it felt very similar to the anger she experienced in her workplace. She felt caught in that moment between shar­ing her authentic reaction and being type cast as an angry Black woman and holding in her true feelings to avoid the stereotype. It was a familiar scenario. Alan interpreted Kiana’s silence as resistance to the therapeutic process. Kiana responded that she had come to therapy to deepen her self-awareness; however, she could see that there were going to be too many barriers between herself and Alan for her to be able to authenti­cally share herself. Alan expressed regret about this and asked if Kiana would consider coming to another session the next day. He felt that Kiana’s desire to terminate their work prematurely was a defense mechanism; a common reaction for those who are new to therapy. Somehow, this did not resonate for Kiana and she did not return for a second session. here is clearly misunderstanding and miscommunication between Kiana and Alan. Kiana was attending therapy in hopes of deepening her self-understanding; however, her initial session has served as a microcosm for her experiences in society at large where she feels invisible. Alan seems to relate to Kiana as a ste­reotype (“angry Black woman”) and explains her feelings of invisibility as being self-imposed (rather than being caused by the environment and larger climate of racism and sexism). Kiana’s feelings and experience are unknowingly invalidated, negated, and dismissed by the therapist. This anecdote illustrates how racial, gen­ der, and sexual orientation microaggressions can have a detrimental impact upon marginalized groups and also undermine the therapeutic process. Let us briefly review Kiana’s interactions with others from her perspective. In her workplace, Kiana experiences persistent feelings of invisibility. She feels she is often overlooked by others and is generally taken to be less important and qualified than her younger and less experienced White officemate. Yet she is placed in an unenviable position of not being absolutely certain that colleagues are react­ing to her race. Further, she is keenly aware of the stereotype of the “angry Black woman” and does not want to be typecast should she express her frustrations. She is aware that if she is experienced as hostile and angry, then people may avoid her in the future, only compounding her feelings of invisibility. Therefore, Kiana feels a persistent need to monitor her authentic reactions and her tone of voice, imped­ing her ability to be her true self (and using a lot of psychic energy!) while at work. Although the therapist may be attempting to help Kiana by asking her to look inside herself for the cause of these feelings of invisibility (a common psychody­namic intervention is to explore intrapsychic dynamics) he actually undermines and invalidates Kiana’s experiential reality. Instead of exploring the workplace environment and considering that racism and sexism cause people to see a Black woman such as Kiana as less capable, intelligent, and important, Alan immedi­ately locates the problem within Kiana (“blaming the victim”). He does the same thing when asking her about dating. He uses his own experience of her in therapy (closed body language, angry expression) and asks her about an “unapproachable air”; again locating the problem within Kiana. Alan also makes a heteronorma­tive assumption about Kiana’s sexuality when he asks her why she is having diffi­culty meeting men. Then, when Kiana responds that she is interested in men and women, he has difficulty owning up to his lack of awareness and instead interprets bisexuality as a phase, thereby invalidating Kiana’s sexual identity. He goes on to further alienate his client by suggesting that Kiana struggles with identity issues, given her multiple ethnic identities. Being multiethnic, Kiana has faced questions her entire life about “what she is” and even though she has a strong understanding of herself as a racial being, Alan has enacted the idea that she must be confused and unsure of her identity. he incidents experienced by Kiana are examples of microaggressions. The term racial microaggressions was originally coined by Chester Pierce to describe the subtle and often automatic put-downs that African Americans face (Pierce, Carew, Pierce-Gonzalez, & Willis, 1978; Pierce, 1995). Since then, the definition has expanded to apply to any marginalized group. Microaggressions can be defined as brief, everyday exchanges that send denigrating messages to a target group, such as people of color; religious minorities; women; people with disabilities; and gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered individuals (Sue, 2010; Sue, Capodilupo, et al., 2007). These microaggressions are often subtle in nature and can be manifested in the verbal, nonverbal, visual, or behavioral realm. They are often enacted auto­ matically and unconsciously (Pierce et al., 1978; Solórzano, Ceja, & Yosso, 2000), although the person who delivers the microaggression can do so intentionally or unintentionally (Sue, Capodilupo, et al., 2007). Investigators have recently intro­duced the term hierarchical microaggressions, defined as “everyday slights found in higher education that communicate systemic valuing (or devaluing) of a person because of the institutional role held by that person” (Young, Anderson & Stewart, 2015, p. 66). Consistent with Kiana’s experiences, participants in that study felt that staff were devalued and made to feel unimportant. When colleagues and service workers seek answers only from Kiana’s coworker and ignore Kiana, they are sending a nonverbal message (walking out of the office) that they do not believe Kiana is competent to handle the task at hand. When the professor is surprised to learn that Kiana has taken a graduate course and assumes it is free for staff, she is sending a nonverbal (look of surprise) and verbal message that Kiana does not belong in the advanced academic environment. The underlying thought process seems to be that Black people are less qualified, less competent, and less educated. As we shall see, microaggressions may seem inno­ cent and innocuous, but their cumulative nature can be extremely harmful to the victim’s physical and mental health. In addition, they create hostile work environ­ments such as Kiana’s where she may be denied opportunities and have difficulties advancing because of unconscious biases and beliefs held by the colleagues. To help in understanding the effects of microaggressions on marginalized groups, we will be (a) reviewing related literature on contemporary forms of oppression (e.g., racism, sexism, heterosexism, ableism, and religious discrimination); (b) presenting a framework for classifying and understanding the hidden and damaging messages of microaggressions; and (c) presenting findings from studies that have explored people’s lived experiences of microaggressions.

CONTEMPORARY FORMS OF OPPRESSION

Most people associate racism with blatant and overt acts of discrimination that are epitomized by White supremacy and hate crimes. Studies suggest, however, that what has been called “old-fashioned” racism has seemingly declined (Dovidio & Gaertner, 2000). However, the nature and expression of racism (see Chapter 4) has evolved into a more subtle and ambiguous form, perhaps reflecting people’s belief that overt and blatant acts of racism are unjust and politically incorrect (Dovidio, Gaertner, Kawakami, & Hodson, 2002). In a sense, racism has gone underground, has become more disguised, and is more likely to be covert. A similar process seems to have occurred with sexism as well. Three types of sexism have been identified: overt, covert, and subtle (Swim & Cohen, 1997). Overt sexism is blatant unequal and unfair treatment of women. Covert sexism refers to unequal and harmful treat­ment of women that is conducted in a hidden manner (Swim & Cohen, 1997); for example, a person may endorse a belief in gender equality but engage in hiring practices that are gender biased. The third type, subtle sexism, represents “unequal and unfair treatment of women that is not recognized by many people because it is perceived to be normative, and therefore does not appear unusual” (Swim, Mallett, & Stangor, 2004, p. 117). Whereas overt and covert sexism are intentional, subtle sexism is not deliberate or conscious. An example of subtle sexism is sexist lan­guage, such as the use of the pronoun he to convey universal human experience. In many ways, subtle sexism contains many of the features that define aversive racism, a form of subtle and unintentional racism (Dovidio & Gaertner, 2000). Aversive racism is manifested in individuals who consciously assert egalitarian values but unconsciously hold anti-minority feelings; therefore, “aversive racists consciously sympathize with victims of past injustice, support the principles of racial equality, and regard themselves as nonprejudiced. At the same time, how­ ever, they possess negative feelings and beliefs about historically disadvantaged groups, which may be unconscious” (Gaertner & Dovidio, 2006, p. 618). Inher­iting such negative feelings and beliefs about members of marginalized groups (e.g., people of color, women, and lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgendered per­ son [LGBT] populations) is unavoidable and inevitable due to the socialization process in the United States (Sue, 2004), where biased attitudes and stereotypes reinforce group hierarchy (Gaertner & Dovidio, 2006). Subtle sexism is very similar to aversive racism in that individuals support and actively condone gender equality, yet unknowingly engage in behaviors that contribute to the unequal treatment of women (Cundiff, Zawadzki, Danube, & Shields, 2014). Much like aversive racism, subtle sexism devalues women, dismisses their accomplishments, and limits their effectiveness in a variety of social and professional settings (Calogero & Tylka, 2014). Researchers have begun to underscore the importance of these daily experiences of subtle sexism, arguing that they are in fact harmful and need to be recognized as such (Becker & Swim, 2012; Cundiff et al., 2014). Researchers have used the templates of modern forms of racism and sexism to better understand the various forms of modern heterosexism (Smith & Shin, 2014; Walls, 2008) and modern homonegativity (M. A. Morrison & T. G. Morrison, 2002). Heterosexism and anti-gay harassment has a long history and is currently prevalent in the United States. Recent studies find the following for LGBT persons in the workplace: (a) 15–43 percent experience discrimination or harassment; (b) 7–41 percent report verbal or physical abuse or had their workplace vandalized; and (c) 10–28 percent were not promoted because they were gay or transgender (Burns & Krehely, 2011). Anti-gay harassment can be defined as “verbal or physical behavior that injures, interferes with, or intimidates lesbian women, gay men, and bisexual individuals” (Burn, Kadlec, & Rexler, 2005, p. 24). Although anti-gay harassment includes comments and jokes that convey that LGB individuals are pathological, abnormal, or unwelcome, authors identify sub­ tle heterosexism by the indirect nature of such remarks (Burn et al., 2005). For example, blatant heterosexism would be calling a lesbian a dyke, whereas subtle heterosexism would be referring to something as gay to convey that it is stupid. For sexual minorities, hearing this remark may result in a vicarious experience of insult and invalidation (Burn et al., 2005; Marzullo & Libman, 2009). It may also encourage individuals to remain closeted, as the environment can be perceived as hostile. The discriminatory experiences of transgendered people have been very rarely studied in psychology (Nadal, Rivera, & Corpus, 2010), yet there is evidence to suggest that the pervasive daily discrimination faced by this population is associ­ ated with an elevated risk for suicide (Marzullo & Libman, 2009). One term used to define prejudice against transgendered individuals is transphobia, “an emotional disgust toward individuals who do not conform to society’s gender expectations” (Hill & Willoughby, 2005, p. 533). There is recent evidence to suggest that the microaggressions experienced by transgender individuals are distinct from those experienced by lesbian, gay, and bisexual people (Nadal, Skolnik, &Wong, 2012). Although it is increasingly considered politically incorrect to hold racist, sex­ ist, and, to some extent, heterosexist beliefs, gender roles and expectations tend to be rigid in the United States, and people may feel more justified in adhering to their transphobic views (Nadal, Issa, Griffin, Hamit, & Lyons, 2010; Nadal et al., 2012). Another area that has received limited attention in the psychological literature is religious discrimination, despite a high prevalence of religious-based hate crimes in the United States (Nadal et al., 2010). The largest percentage of religious harassment and civil rights violations in the United States are commit­ ted against Jewish and Muslim individuals (Nadal et al., 2010). Some commonly held anti-Semitic beliefs are that Jews (a) are more loyal to Israel than to the United States, (b) hold too much power in the United States, and (c) are respon­sible for the death of Jesus Christ (Nadal et al., 2010). The prejudice experienced by Muslim individuals is often referred to as Islamaphobia and has been well documented in Western European countries both before and after the September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks (Nadal et al., 2010). The media tends to depict Muslims as religious fanatics and terrorists (James, 2008), and one study reveals that Americans hold both implicit and explicit negative attitudes toward this group (Rowatt, Franklin, & Cotton, 2005). Finally, though discriminatory practices toward people with disabilities (PWD) is long-standing in the United States and even believed to be increasing in frequency and intensity (Leadership Conference on Civil Rights Education Fund [LCCREF], 2009, as cited in Keller & Galgay, 2010), ableism is rarely included in discussions about modern forms of oppression (Keller & Galgay, 2010). The expression of ableism “favors people without disabilities and maintains that disability in and of itself is a negative concept, state, and experience” (Keller & Galgay, 2010, p. 242). What makes this phenomenon of subtle discrimination particularly complex is that ambiguity and alternative explanations obscure the true meaning of the event not only for the person who engages in this behavior, but also for the person on the receiving end of the action. This is the central dilemma created by microag­gressions, which are manifestations of these subtle forms of oppression.

EVOLUTION OF THE “ISMS”: MICROAGGRESSIONS

Microaggressions are “brief and commonplace daily verbal or behavioral indigni­ties, whether intentional or unintentional, that communicate hostile, derogatory, or negative racial slights and insults that potentially have a harmful or unpleasant psychological impact on the target person or group” (Sue, Bucceri, Lin, Nadal, & Torino, 2007). Microaggressions can also be delivered environmentally through the physical surroundings of target groups, where they are made to feel unwelcome, isolated, unsafe, and alienated. For example, a prestigious Eastern university con­ ducts new faculty orientations in their main conference room, which displays portraits of all past presidents of the university. One new female faculty of color mentioned that during the orientation she noticed that every single portrait was that of a White male. She described feelings of unease and alienation. To her, the all-White-male portraits sent powerful messages: “Your kind does not belong here,” “You will not be comfortable here,” and “If you stay, there is only so far you can rise at this university!” Environmental microaggressions can occur when there is an absence of students or faculty of color on college campuses, few women in the upper echelons of the workplace, and limited or no access for disabled persons in buildings (e.g., only stairs and no ramp; no Braille in elevators). Research suggests that the socialization process culturally conditions racist, sexist, and heterosexist attitudes and behaviors in well-intentioned individuals and that these biases are often automatically enacted without conscious awareness, particularly for those who endorse egalitarian values (Dovidio & Gaertner, 2000). Based on the literature on subtle forms of oppression, one might conclude the following about microaggressions: They (a) tend to be subtle, unintentional, and indirect; (b) often occur in situations where there are alternative explanations; (c) represent unconscious and ingrained biased beliefs and attitudes; and (d) are more likely to occur when people pretend not to notice differences, thereby denying that race, sex, sexual orientation, religion, or ability had anything to do with their actions (Sue, Capodilupi, et al., 2007). Three types of microaggressions have been identified: microassault, microinsult, and microinvalidation.

Microassault

The term microassault refers to a blatant verbal, nonverbal, or environmental attack intended to convey discriminatory and biased sentiments. This notion is related to overt racism, sexism, heterosexism, ableism, and religious discrimination in which individuals deliberately convey derogatory messages to target groups. Using epithets like spic, faggot, or kyke; hiring only men for managerial positions; requesting not to sit next to a Muslim on an airplane; and deliberately serving disabled patrons last are examples. Unless we are talking about White suprema­ cists, most perpetrators with conscious biases will engage in overt discrimination only under three conditions: (a) when some degree of anonymity can be insured, (b) when they are in the presence of others who share or tolerate their biased beliefs and actions, or (c) when they lose control of their feelings and actions. Two past high-profile examples exemplify the first condition: (a) Paula Deen’s use of the N-word and racial harassment to employees of color (caught on tape), and (b) Justin Bieber’s use of the N-word and racial jokes (caught on video). There are also high-profile examples of the last condition: (a) actor Mel Gibson made highly inflammatory anti-Semitic public statements to police officers when he was arrested for driving while intoxicated, and (b) comedian Michael Richards, who played Kramer on Seinfeld, went on an out-of-control rant at a comedy club and publicly insulted African Americans by hurling racial epithets at them and by demeaning their race. Gibson and Richards denied being anti-Semitic or racist and issued immediate apologies, but it was obvious both had lost control. Because microassaults are most similar to old-fashioned racism, no guessing game is likely to occur as to their intent: to hurt or injure the recipient. Both the perpetrator and the recipient are clear about what has transpired. We submit that microassaults are in many respects easier to deal with than those that are unintentional and outside the perpetrator’s level of awareness (microinsults and microinvalidations).

Microinsult

Microinsults are unintentional behaviors or verbal comments that convey rude­ ness or insensitivity or demean a person’s racial heritage/identity, gender identity, religion, ability, or sexual orientation identity. Despite being outside the level of conscious awareness, these subtle snubs are characterized by an insulting hidden statements such as “there is only one race: the human race” negate the lived expe­ riences of religious and ethnic minorities in the United States. Such statements have been coined by researchers as “color-blind” attitudes and new research shows that among White adults in a workplace setting, higher color-blind attitudes are associated with lower likelihoods of perceiving microaggressions (Offermann et al., 2014; Sue, 2010). To further illustrate the concepts of microinsults and microin­ validations, Table 6.1 provides examples of comments, actions, and situations, as well as accompanying hidden messages and assumptions. There are 16 distinct cat­ egories represented in this table: alien in one’s own land; ascription of intelligence; assumption of abnormality; color blindness; criminality/assumption of criminal status; denial of individual racism/sexism/heterosexism/religious prejudice; myth of meritocracy; pathologizing cultural values/communication styles; second-class status; sexual objectification; use of sexist/heterosexist language; traditional gender role prejudice and stereotyping; helplessness; denial of personal identity; exotici­ zation; and assumption of one’s own religion as normal. Some of these categories are more applicable to certain forms of microaggressions (racial, gender, religion,

 

Table 6.1 Examples of Microagression

 

Themes

Microagression

Message

 

Alien in own land

 

· When Asian Americans and Latinos   are assumed to be foreign- born

· A person asking an Asian   American to teach them words in their native language

·

· “Where are you from?”“Where   were you born?”

· “You speak good English”

· You are a foreigner.

· You are not American.

 

Ascription of Intelligence 

 

· Assigning intelligence to a   person of color or a woman based on his or her race/gender

· You are a credit to your   race.

· “Wow! How did you become so   good in math?”

· Asking an Asian person to   help with a math or science problem

· You only got into college   because of affirmative action.”

· ” People of color are   generally not as intelligent as Whites.

· It is unusual for a woman to   be smart in math.

· All Asians are intelligent   and good in math/sciences.

· You are not smart enough on   your own to get into college

 

Color Blindness

 

· Blindness Statements that   indicate that a White person does not want to acknowledge race

· When I look at you, I don’t   see color

· “America is a Melting Pot.”

· There is only one race: the   human race.”

· Assimilate/acculturate to   dominant culture.

· Denying a person of color’s   racial/ethnic experiences

 

Criminality/Assumption of Criminal Status

 

· A person of color is   presumed to be dangerous, criminal, or deviant based on their race

· A White man or woman   clutching their purse or checking their wallet as a Black or Latino   approaches or passes.

· A White person waits to ride   the next elevator when a person of color is on i

· You are a criminal/You are   dangerous.

· You are dangerous.

 

Use of Sexist/Heterosexist Language

 

Terms that exclude or degrade women and LGB persons

· Use of the pronoun “he” to   refer to all people. Male experience is universal.

· Though a male-to-female   transgendered employee has consistently referred to herself as “she,”   coworkers continue to refer to “he.”

· Two options for Relationship   Status: Married or Single.

· An assertive woman is   labeled a “bitch.

· A heterosexual man who often   hangs out with his female friends more than his male friends is labeled a   “faggot.”

· Male experience is   universal.

. Female experience is meaningless.

·  Our language does not need to change to   reflect your identity; your identity is meaningless.

· . LGB partnerships do not   matter/are meaningless.

· Women should be passive.

· Men who act like women are   inferior (women are inferior)/gay men are inferior

 

Denial of Individual Racism/ Sexism/Heterosexism/Religious   Discrimination

 

· A statement made when bias   is denied

· “I’m not racist. I have   several Black friends.”

· “I am not prejudiced against   Muslims. I am just fearful of Muslims who are religious fanatics.”

· As an employer, I always   treat men and women equally.”

· I am immune to racism   because I have friends of color.

· I can separate Islamaphobic   social conditioning from my feelings about Muslim people in general.

· I am incapable of sexism.

 

Myth of Meritocracy

 

· Meritocracy Statements that   assert that race or gender does not play a role in life successes

· “I believe the most   qualified person should get the job.”

· “Men and women have equal   opportunities for achievement.”

· People of color are given   extra unfair benefits because of their race.

· The playing field is even;   so if women cannot make it, the problem is with them.

 

Pathologizing Cultural Values/ Communication Styles

 

· The notion that the values   and communication styles of the dominant/White culture are ideal

· Asking a Black person: “Why   do you have to be so loud/animated?

· Dismissing an individual who   brings up race/culture in work/school setting

· Assimilate to dominant   culture.

· Leave your cultural baggage   outside.

 

Second-Class Citizen

 

· Occurs when a target group   member receives differential treatment from the power group

· Person of color mistaken for   a service worker

· Female doctor mistaken for a   nurse

· Having a taxi cab pass a   person of color and pick up a White passenger

· Being ignored at a store   counter as attention is given to the White customer behind you

· A lesbian woman is not   invited out with a group of girlfriends because they thought she would be   bored if they were talking to men.

· People of color are servants   to Whites. They couldn’t possibly occupy high-status positions.

· Women occupy nurturing roles

· You are likely to cause   trouble and/or travel to a dangerous neighborhood.

· Whites are more valued   customers than people of color

· You don’t belong.

 

Traditional Gender Role Prejudicing and   Stereotyping

 

· Occurs when expectations of   traditional roles or stereotypes are conveyed

· When a female student asked   a male professor for extra help on a chemistry assignment, he asks, “What do   you need to work on this for anyway?”

· A person asks a woman her   age and, upon hearing she is 31, looks quickly at her ring finger.

· A woman is assumed to be a   lesbian because she does not put a lot of effort into her appearance.

· Women are less capable in   math and science.

· Women should be married   during child­ bearing ages because that is their primary purpose.

· Lesbians do not care about   being attractive to others.

 

Sexual Objectification 

 

· Occurs when women are   treated like objects at men’s disposal

· A male stranger puts his   hands on a woman’s hips or on the swell of her back to pass by her.

· Whistles and catcalls as a   woman walks down the street.

Students use the term gay to describe a   fellow student who is socially ostracized at school

· Your body is not yours

· Your body/appearance is for   men’s enjoyment and pleasure.

· People who are weird and   different are “gay.”

 

Assumption of Abnormality

 

· Occurs when it is implied   that there is something wrong with being LGBT

· Two men holding hands in   public receiving stares from strangers

· . “Did something terrible   happen to you in your childhood?” to a transgendered person.

· You should keep your   displays of affection private because they are offensive.

· Your choices must be the   result of a trauma and not your authentic identity

 

Helplessness1

 

· Occurs when people   frantically try to help people with disabilities (PWDs

· Someone helps you onto a bus   or train, even when you need no help.

· People feel they need to   rescue you from your disability.

· You can’t do anything by   yourself because you have a disability.

· Having a disability is a   catastrophe.

 

Denial of Personal Identity2

 

· Occurs when any aspect of a   person’s identity other than disability is ignored or denied

· “I can’t believe you are   married!”

Your life is not normal or like mine. The only thing I see when I   look at you is your disability

 

Exoticization

 

Occurs when an LGBT, women of color, or a   religious minority is treated as a foreign object for the pleasure/   entertainment of others

· “I’ve always wanted an Asian   girlfriend! They wait hand and foot on their men.”

· “Tell me some of your wild   sex stories!” to an LGBT person.

· Asking a Muslim person   incessant questions about his/her diet, dress, and relationships.

· Asian American women are   submissive and meant to serve the physical needs of men.

· Your privacy is not valued;   you should entertain with stories.

· Your privacy is not valued;   you should educate me about your cultural practices, which are strange and   different.

 

Assumption of One’s Own Religion as Normal3

· Saying “Merry Christmas” as   a universal greeting.

· The sole acknowledgment of   Christian holidays in work and school.

· Your religious beliefs are   not important; everyone should celebrate Christmas.

· Your religious holidays need   to be celebrated on your time; they are unimportant

 

Reflection 2:

Communication Styles and Its Impact on Counseling and Psychotherapy

In no more than 2 but no less than 2 pages of double spaced text,APA format reflect and respond to the questions below as they pertain to you personally.

1.    How would you describe your own communication style?

2.    How would you describe your personal helping style?  Realizing that a counselor is in a position to influence clients, what would you say might be YOUR influencing skills?

3.    When you read over the information about communication style differences, what culturally/racially influenced communication styles cause you the greatest difficulty or discomfort?  (It is assumed that there will be difficulty or discomfort – we all have some!)  What is the discomfort about?  Reflect and write about where this comes from within yourself.  What stereotypes, fears or preconceived notions do you have about various racial/ethnic groups?  Please be honest with yourself and be assured that your responses are confidential!

Thank you!  Please let me know if you have questions!